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I was with the same man since I was 16 years old and now that I am single I would have to say, right now, single is where I want to be, I’m just not sure if single is where I want to stay for a lifetime.

 amy says:

March 27, 2010 at 4:41 pm

married. or at least long-term partnered. i’m not in a hurry, but i do hope to find someone to make that commitment with again.


for the time being, i would really, really, REALLY like to have a stable, committed relationship with someone i’m crazy about who’s crazy about me. but not actually crazy. once a week sleepovers. the occasional weekend away. eventually hanging out with the kids. and take it from there.


why is this so difficult???? oy. I really wish I could be happier, or at least content, single. I have a great life, great job, great friends, great kids, great stuff happening with my writing. why is that not enough, putting me in the camp of the quasi-happily married friends?

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Amira says:

March 27, 2010 at 9:18 pm

It’s funny, but it does seem like the grass is always greener on the other side.

When I was married, it was such a struggle most of the time that I wished I was married. Actually, what I wished was to be HAPPY being married–but I wasn’t.

Being divorced and mostly single for nearly 6 years now, I miss being in a relationship A LOT. However, I also see the positives of not being in one and sometimes just really appreciate all the things that I don’t have to deal with when I am connected to someone.


All that said, I hope to find a companion for the long-term, and sooner than later.

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