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I was literally JUST crying my eyes out about this … hung up the phone and turned on my computer to read this. A lot of the women I know are married, have children, families, husbands, and I am building a business. This post def made me feel like at 28, I should be proud of what i am doing, not sitting at home crying over boys.


 Kaneisha April 30, 2010 at 11:19 am

I’m right there with you, Natalie. The day Mr. C and I broke up, I made the terrible mistake of watching that ABC special about how successful Black women can’t find a good man, and spent 30 minutes on the phone with my Grandma crying my eyes out. No more of that.


 Skye Blue April 30, 2010 at 1:31 am

Maybe it’s because I’m well into my 30’s, but I think she’s right. I mean, if I had married any of the guys I was dating in my 20’s my life would be a big ol’ bag o’ sh#t right now.

The one thing I’ll add to her message is this:


I think the older you get and the more experiences you have the more you know yourself – which means that you know more about what you want and don’t want in your life. Some would argue that you also get more set in your ways (and I admit that they’d have a point), but I think being clear (and by that I don’t mean rigid or controlling – but grounded in your own truth) about what you desire out of your life and your mate is a key part of having a successful – as in enduring, happy, healthy, and passion-filled union.

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